Early Signs of a Potentially Abusive Relationship
The last thing one wants to think about in a new romance are the signs of a potential abuser. Yet if one is serious about a relationship, there are certain danger signals one should be aware of.
Some of these early signs are not easy to recognize or to even equate with abuse. It can be something as romantic as a whirlwind courtship with an overly attentive suitor. The perfect man-of-your-dreams, who suddenly steps into your life and quickly sweeps you off your feet with his love and generosity (not to mention his extreme protection), can be the first warning signs for the beginnings of a relationship from hell.
Here are a few things to watch for that can signify an unhealthy and potentially combustible relationship:
Your New Love Must Be With You at All Times
When your new romance must be with you every moment and needs a full report when you are out of their sight, you may have a problem.
Their Feelings are Easily Hurt Over Tiny Infractions.
If you find yourself apologizing continually for every little nuance, you may have a problem.
Instant Jealousy
If there is an immediate jealous reaction over any attention bestowed upon, or given by you, you may have a problem.
“Loving Actions” That Can Ultimately Keep You Isolated
When the Object of Your Affection begins to make long-term plans that can separate you from your job/school/profession or even your family, you may have a problem.
Blaming You for Their Anger
If you find yourself accused as the cause of every disagreement, whether mild or fiery, you may have a problem.
Although, in a new relationship, it is sometimes hard to see the telltale signs of a potential abuser, it is wise to understand the forms and disguises where potential abuse can hide. This is a case where it is definitely better to be safe than sorry.
